|Anonymous: I was asking whether you would have liked Matt Smith returning for series 8 as the Doctor or another actor, but yeah now that's official that Matt is returning... Nevertheless, still asking the question, just to know haha :)|
Oh, I never got that. Yeah, I love Matt, I would enjoy any and all seasons with him. And we’ve known that he’s signed on for series 8 for a while now, but yeah, I’m glad about it.
|Anonymous: Everybody I tried was a mutual follow, otherwise I wouldn´t even tried... anyway, I dont want to keep annoying you with my stupid problems, you´ve been very nice. Thank you so much for answering me. I´ll see what I do. Thanks for listen to me.|
whostandsbehind said: Hi! I just wanted to tell to the anon there: at first I also felt like you do now. And sometimes I still feel like that. So if occasionally you want to talk with someone, you could write to me :) End of the intrusion, sorry for the bother!
There you go, Anon. A friend made already :D
|Anonymous: Is it ok to vent with you? You always seem so nice at people. I´m thinking on deleting, lately I just feel miserable here. It´s frustrating when I post my stuff and everybody ignore me. I thought to focus in making friends, but I´m tired, I´m always giving a lot, I´m the dumb that check on people frequently or support them when they need and in return I dont get nothing. And it hurts! I feel so stupid and useless and unworthy... ;'( So sorry to bother you, I just needed it...|
Awww, Anon! It’s not a bother at all. I know how you feel - when I first started out on Tumblr, it took me AT LEAST TWO/THREE MONTHS before I ever really ended up talking to people. It takes time to make friends, and sometimes you have to work hard, but it’ll happen eventually.
But if tumblr is making you miserable, then maybe you should delete. Even when I didn’t even talk to anybody or have any followers, blogging still made me happy. It was never about how much my followers interacted with me; I just always had fun on the site, doing nothing except reblogging and tagging with my ridiculous tags, even back when no one read them. I enjoy tumblr as a site. If you don’t enjoy tumblr as a site, then maybe you should go to a different site, one that makes you happy regardless of how much people interact with you. You shouldn’t rely on other people to make you happy, Anon. Do what’s best for you.
However, if you think that tumblr does make you happy, then stay! It takes time to make friends, it often requires lots of effort, and there will be hits and misses. Some people will respond to your advances, some people won’t. Some friends will be worth it, some friends won’t. You just have to be willing to work through all the shitty scenarios until a good friend emerges - everything from then on is cake. If you enjoy it, then stick with it. It’ll work out eventually.
ALRIGHT. So these are all the anons I got over the weekend (sorry for taking so long to reply!) and I’m putting my answers under a cut because it ended up being A LOT LONGER than I expected.
Vague fandom wank regarding the Moffat Era behind the cut and LOTS of TenToo/Rose feels regarding the last question:
|Anonymous: winterinthetardis(.)tumblr(.)com/post/49948152170 IS THAT A ROSE IN MATT'S HAND?|
wrong link sorry! I’m talking about the post with the pictures in hide (about the rose in his hand)
I know what post you’re talking about, but I don’t know, Anon. Maybe? It kind of looks like a flower?
|Anonymous: nili, i am sorry you get a lot of dumb anon messages (and i'm sure nonanon that you don't have to publish). you're a saint for answering all of them calmly and levelly. beyond that, you're funny, inspiring, so friendly, and amazingly kind. i know you don't need me to fluff up your ego, but i do have to wonder sometimes how often you are legitimately thanked for all that you do. your blog is consistently wonderful, and that's not easy to maintain. so thank you for being there for all of us.|
Awwww thank you, Anon!! You’re so sweet!! And I really appreciate that. I do try to be polite and helpful in response to all of my messages, so I’m glad you guys enjoy interacting with me :D
|Anonymous: What are your feelings about Eleven/Rose? Do you think the Doctor still thinks of Rose often in his new regeneration, has made his peace with her memory, or something else?|
I ship it in that I will always ship Doctor/Rose, but no, I don’t think the Doctor is actively pining after Rose the way he was when he was Ten. Yes, he still loves her, but he still loves them all. Rose most likely holds a more precious spot than most, because of how much she helped him after the Time War, but he’s very much moved on and has made peace with that love.
|Anonymous: hi :) i just want your opinion about 'River song', do you think that she was 'The doctor's love life'? the writers said something? i read some quotes that Rusell T Davis said and he pretty much said so :/ (also of course her creator steven moffat). but after all those moments with Rose, after all the quotes they SAID i read about Rose being 'the soul mate' of the doctor, how THAT can be possible? how is that this River song came and became 'the doctor real love life'?.|
Okay, I get what you’re saying, I really do. You want your OTP to actually be the one true pairing, but the question you gotta ask yourself is: does it really matter?
|Anonymous: thank u nili and thank u other ppl. i'm social anxiety anon. my mom won't let me go (i'm 21 but i can't get a job, i'm trying to file for disability (i have a lot of medical physical problems) and i have to ask her for money. she believes in my physical problems, but she doesn't believe in emotional prbs. the doctor i see says i have major depressive disorder. she won't pay for my medicine. she thinks it'll go away, or that it's a phase. i tried to kill myself when i was 14, she waved that off.|
I’m sorry, bb. I hope everything works out and don’t let your mom’s mentality get to you, okay? Social/emotional disorders are a legitimate thing and don’t let anybody tell you differently!
|claravoyant: To your anon. Hi! Social anxiety is really fucking difficult to deal with, isn't it? I suffer from it and currently take medication to relieve some of the symptoms. If you have any questions about what to do when it comes to therapy or psychiatric meds, i have a fair amount of experience with that stuff.|
HERE YOU GO, ANON. TALK TO CATE IF YOU WANNA KNOW MORE!