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• Wow, really? Did you seriously just skip over all of series 3? Sure, the Doctor never SAID anything mean to Martha, but he also never TREATED her well. He knows Martha has a crush on him, but he continually just ignores it and lets it fester, instead of explaining. He doesn’t say anything about why Rose isn’t here anymore, just letting Martha think that he was dumped, instead of admitting that he lost her, which would make Martha realize that he’s heartbroken in a completely different way, one which would make the Doctor’s attitude understandable. He brings Martha to places that he and Rose have already been and continually talks about Rose like “she would know,” which essentially just makes Martha feel like she’s not good enough. When Martha brings up the idea that “maybe there’s somebody for everyone,” the Doctor just straight up shoots her down, instead of being kind about the fact that Martha was clearly trying to open up a line of communication between them about relationships. When the Doctor and Martha have to hide from The Family, the Doctor chooses a time period where Martha will be continually discriminated against and made to feel like she is not the Doctor’s equal, instead of choosing a time period where Martha would be comfortable, or, at the very least, not looked down upon. Martha spent all of her time on the TARDIS, haunted by the ghost of Rose Tyler, not understanding at all why she’s continually being referred to as second-best. The Doctor doesn’t bother explaining anything to her. Martha actually has to sit down and FORCE the Doctor to talk to her and tell her about Gallifrey, because he refuses to. So sure, he might say “Martha Jones, you are a star,” to her face, but his actions are saying “Martha Jones, you are second best.” And everyone knows, Anon, that actions speak louder than words. That’s why Martha inevitably had to get out - because the Doctor wasn’t ever going to notice her, and she couldn’t live her life like that anymore.
• Everyone appears in the present as old and dead because they actually live those however many years. They’re sent 50 years in the past and then live those 50 years out until the present, hence why when you see them in the present, they’re old and/or dead. However, the Doctor and Martha get Sally to send the TARDIS back to them. Thus, they don’t need to live out however many years into the past they are, thus they are healthy and normal looking.
• Ohhh. HERE YOU GO, ANON. Thanks bb because I didn’t understand at all what they meant.
• Series 5 > Series 6 > Series 7. I’m not a huge fan of his style. He focuses more on plot, while my preferences lie with character development.
• SEE ABOVE

• Um…? I don’t think I understand this question?? If Donna had never met the Doctor, then the Doctor would have drowned during the events of “The Runaway Bride,” when the Racnoss attacked? That’s depicted in the episode “Turn Left.” Did you only watch like half the episode? Because I don’t know how you can know about Donna turning right and not know about the Doctor dying because she wasn’t there, since they literally both happened in the same episode. Am I understanding you wrong?? Please expand on your question further so I can try and help you!! Sorry!!
• Definitely, I love talking things out :D. It’s fine if you like BBC Sherlock more! I just like Elementary more. We can agree to disagree!
• Hahaha hey! I haven’t been on tumblr that much either tbh, my queue does most of my work for me nowadays. But I’m good. Come the end of June, I won’t have a job anymore (my department will run out of funding for my position, so I’m forced to be ~laid off), but on the bright side, I have a bit of money saved up so I’m not too worried about it. That’s pretty much the only thing going on in my life rn.

• Actually, it’s completely fair to compare them. BBC Sherlock has 90-minute-long episodes. Elementary has 45-minute-long episodes. That means every one episode of BBC Sherlock is really the equivalent of two episodes of Elementary. Even if we compare the first 12 episodes of Elementary with all of BBC Sherlock, Elementary still portrays 1000000000000x more character development than BBC Sherlock. Plus, you don’t NEED a very long time for character development to occur. It can literally take place all within one episode if you wanted it to (i.e. The Girl Who Waited, Amy’s Choice, Vincent and the Doctor). BBC Sherlock just doesn’t concentrate on it. It has more than enough time to, but it just chooses not to.
• Yeah, but if she weren’t working to support him, then it would never have been in the script in the first place. None of the information in the script just comes out of nowhere. It’s all accurate information, just said at the right time. Plus, I can’t imagine that Martha chose to interrupt and say that she’s been supporting him just because the script said so. The reason the script says she interrupts is because she does interrupt. I don’t doubt that Martha definitely worked to support them while the Doctor sat around and tinkered.
• PLEASE.

Anonymous: ok but in your face tag I see a blond with a supernatural tattoo let me just say HOT DAMN girl who is that ((not that you aren't gorgeous but TATTOO)) p.s. i am also a girl not that it matters???

Hahahahah, that is the lovely Moofy.

Also, I don’t see what you being a girl has to do with us meeting up but okay??? i mean like i am willing to meet up with you regardless of your gender?? FOLLOWERS ARE FOLLOWERS BRO I ACCEPT YOU ALL

• I don’t agree, sorry. I think some aspects of Elementary reads closer to Arthur Conan Doyle’s version than BBC Sherlock does. Either way, they’re both Sherlock adaptations, whether you believe so or not, so there’s bound to be comparisons. I love both, for different reasons, but I like Elementary more. That’s all I’m saying. If you like BBC Sherlock more, then good for you. But just because BBC Sherlock follows relatively closer to the actual plotlines of ACD’s Sherlock Holmes doesn’t mean it’s a more accurate adaptation, nor does it mean it’s a more realistic one to modern day. Just because Watson is a girl and started out as Sherlock’s sober companion instead of immediately being hired as his ~assistant doesn’t mean it’s not a Sherlock Holmes adaptation. There have been adaptations of Sherlock Holmes in which they’re both animals. So if those can be considered Sherlock Holmes adaptations, so can Elementary.
• They don’t really have any details up yet.
• THANK YOUUUU :D :D

Anonymous: AW YEAH ANON'S BACK. Heyyyy this is MI-On-My-Way-To-Comic-Con Anon. And I HAVE TICKETS. (Or I will have, tomorrow). I'll be there on Thursday. SO: What day are you going, and if you are going on the same day, how shall we arrange to meet one another?

Awww yeahhh. And I have a 4 day pass, so I’ll definitely be there all the time. If you’re going to the dwblog meetup then we can meet there?? but as of now, i pretty much have no idea what my schedule’s gonna be??? BUT UNTIL I FIGURE THAT OUT, JUST KNOW THAT I’LL TOTALLY POST A PICTURE OF MYSELF BEFORE I LEAVE (NOT THAT YOU GUYS DON’T ALREADY KNOW WHAT I LOOK LIKE) AND I ABSOLUTELY URGE YOU GUYS TO COME UP AND TALK TO ME IF YOU WANT TO! FREE HUGS!

• kjdhfjdfsf you shut your face ilu
• Hmmm, I don’t really have guilty pleasures? I’m pretty open about what I watch/read so it’s not like I’m ever ~hiding anything. But I guess a show that I love that I’m not apart of the fandom for (thus you guys wouldn’t know that I love it) is The Vampire Diaries. Other than that, um… OH. CHOPPED. WHICH YOU WOULD KNOW IF YOU FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER, BUT YEAH, IF THERE’S A FOOD NETWORK FANDOM, I WANT TO BE IN IT, BECAUSE FUCKING CHOPPED, MAN. CHOPPED AND IRON CHEF AMERICA.

• YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS BEST COMMERCIAL EVER
• Everyone! The majority of my GISHWHES team (Jess, Kyle, Crystal, Sami, Mac, Kay +like five other people…) and Alix and Gabi.
• hgkjfhdjkg shut your face i love you and accept that tbh

Anonymous: ok so awkward question but it was getting all sex-y up in here earlier s o wanna tell me how lube is used? cause quite frankly, i'm fucking confused.

Lube is essentially used when there’s a potential for chafing/pain from too much friction, whether it’s from frottage or intercourse. It’s not always necessary when it’s a M/F relationship and they’re having vaginal intercourse, because if the woman is properly aroused (aka “wet”), then their body provides the natural lubricant themselves. Some women just naturally don’t get as wet as necessary, so sometimes they need to use lube. The lube goes on the penis and/or into her vagina, so that when he puts his throbbing member into her warm ladycastle, it doesn’t hurt.

• …Yes, thanks, Anon, I know that theory. That post about the whales was a joke. Either way, I still hold with the idea that John Hurt is the Valeyard, because I am pretty much going to fucking punch everything ever if John Hurt is 8.5, because, hey, Eight is the Time War Doctor. Eight is. There’s Doctor Who canonical audiobooks that are setting up Eight being the Time War Doctor and it’s pretty much the biggest and most arrogant slap in the face for Moffat to rewrite Eight’s history, so yeah, no, I refuse to believe John Hurt is 8.5. Even if that turns out to be true, I’m just pretty much not going to take that as canon, because Eight.
• SHE REALLY SHOULD, BECAUSE PEOPLE WHO HAVE MET HER (KYLE, JESS, ALIX) ALL LIKE HER MORE THAN ME, SO~. But she does have her own tag on my blog, just in case you want to learn more about her!
• It’s suuuuuuuuuper problematic, yes! Idk about sexist, because I don’t really know enough about sexism to be able to pinpoint things that aren’t, like, SUPER obvious, but yeah, the whole Cassandra-Possessing-Rose and also kissing the Doctor speaks of a lot of shady consent issues and gives off a lot of creepy rape-y vibes, so yes, super problematic.

Anonymous: why don't you like nilan? it sounds beautiful

Awwww, thank you Anon! Actually, I love Nilan. It’s my name, why wouldn’t I like it? But Nili’s also been my nickname since I was a baby, so I’m very attached to that as well. However, the only time Nilan sounds right to me is if you’re saying it with a Persian accent, since only my family calls me Nilan, so I prefer anyone without a Persian accent to call me Nili! Just so I won’t be like “it’s pronounced Nee-lawn. Nee-lawn. Nee-lawn,” because no matter how you say it, I still think you’re saying it wrong. [Listen to my mom say it here!]

• Welllllll, both those things happen AFTER the end of s2. However, while I think Erica will be killed off (Gage is starring in her own CW show, I believe), I think I remember Jeff saying that he’s leaving Jackson’s storyline open-ended (his parents are probs gonna move him to the east coast or something), so that Colton has the choice to come back any time he’s done with shooting Arrow.
• Awwww, thank you, Anon. I’m very happy that my advice helped!! And I’m also glad that you’re getting help. I’m very proud of you for being so strong. :D
• I don’t really want to go into details, but essentially, we had a short period of time to be together (a few weeks) and they told me that if we didn’t have sex, then we couldn’t do anything at all the whole time we were together. All or nothing. I felt pressured and obligated, because of how we felt about each other, and if I had to do it again, I would have said no and waited for a less stressful environment. I don’t regret the person - just the circumstances in which my first time happened. That’s why I’m pretty much all aboard the Not Doing Anything You Don’t Feel 900000000014% Comfortable With boat. Also, research research research, because I wish I had watched this video before; my first time hurt like hell.
• Hahahaha, in case you couldn’t tell by the context clues of my whole blog, that’s definitely Billie Piper :D
• Hmmm, I’ve been Nili since I was a little baby! I didn’t choose the nickname, but if I had the choice now, I would definitely stick with it. Nila is a bit too wafery to me. 

• Awwwwwww yeaaaaaaah GO YOU ANON!
• Yes. I have before and will continue to talk to my mom openly about sex. I sat my mom down at 17 and said, “hey, mom, I’m going to go vacation and during this time, I’m going to have sex.” And she told me to be safe and got me birth control and packed my bags full of condoms. If you’re above 18, fine, you don’t need to talk to your mom. But if you’re under, then I think it’s very smart of you to. If you think you’re mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough to talk to your mother about it. The only exception to this is if your mother and you do not have a safe relationship.
  
  (Ideally,) your mother is the person who birthed you, raised you, and took care of you. She’s supposed to be on your side, no matter what, and she’ll always attempt to give you the best advice possible. What’s more, she’ll have more experience than any of your friends, mostly about sex, pregnancy, etc. If you have a healthy relationship with her and can’t talk to her about something as important as taking the next step to having sex, then you’re probably not ready to have sex. Either way, Anon, you don’t have to agree with me. The previous anon asked my thoughts and this is what I responded with. 
• you’re cool too, anon. you’re cool too.

• Never! My URL doesn’t change and doesn’t have anything to do with what the actual season is. My URL is based off my headcanon.
• URHGEIRHUIERG SHUSH ILU
• Nope. Not even close. Agnostic at 10, atheist at 14.

Anonymous: ok so idk if its the right thing but you're older than me and i believe more mature and i have a question: im sixteen and me and my boyfriend have been together dor two months. in those two months we've like, had sexual experiences but not have sex, right? and idk, i want to have sex with him sometime future, but idk how to tell my mom and i want it to be safe so she'll take me toa gynecologyst and all but idk how to do that, im sorry if im bothering you i just dont where to go

Hmmmm, well, I might not be the best person to talk to about this, just because I think sixteen is too young to be having sex? I mean, yeah, sex is awesome, but there’s no rush to be having it. Sex will still be there when you’re older and ~wiser, and teenagers tend to just be pretty impulsive and make bad decisions because they think it feels good without thinking about the emotional consequences of having sex. (I’m saying this out of experience - I was 17 when I had sex and if I could take it back, I probably would, just so that my first time wouldn’t have been in the environment that it was. I could have waited a little bit longer and have had a much happier memory of the event.) Sex isn’t a cure-all to relationship problems and it isn’t a simple step to make. Don’t do it if you feel like you’re obligated to or if you feel like you’re supposed to, and make sure you talk to your partner first and make sure that he’s ready too, because what if he isn’t and he needs time? Don’t just assume because the stereotype is that boys are sex-crazed hormones bombs or whatever. The key to a successful relationship is communication. 

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